Blessed Mess ÐÊtales of living, loving and dying with stuff Ð is a collection of anecdotes and reflections on the chaos and clutter of life. Lois confronts the mess in our homes, workplaces, relationships, heads and computers. The things we surround ourselves with and the stuff we leave behind when we go. Blessed Mess is a thoughtful, helpful and philosphical meditation on the messy business of living.