Ms Ramsey SELFISHLY leaves husband for Tom Nikos abandoning him in Davis, CA while he is held captive & tortured by dueling Evil Insurance Companies and their Cartel Warlord Leaders. J Re mentally and physically left marriage on the fourth day in Maui, wonderful - pure selfishness. How did Julia Roberts movies brainwash people that marriage vows do not mean anything, that selfishness is more important than partnership? In a J Lo socitey, as the movies create a recipe for Self-absorbed people.