If you know fifty males, one of them is a crossdresser / a heterosexual transvestite / a ÒTV Ò (slang).., none of which is a negative term (look Ôem up). That could mean 1 on the Oakland Raiders and every other 50-man NFL roster and 160 of the 6,000 L.A. cops might wear a little black dress come Friday night. If youÕre coping with that particular situation, this could be a very disturbing time for you. It doesnÕt have to be. This may be the book for you. The author has dealt with it since he was five years old. HeÕs married, a father and a Grandpa. And is doing just fine. ÒIÕm Dressed, YouÕre NotÓ is intelligent, educational, tender and humorous. ItÕs not anyoneÕs ÒjourneyÓ, and you wonÕt find a Òfemale trapped in a manÕs bodyÓ. In the Los Angeles radio market they called Johnny Gunn, ÒThe Midday Nice GuyÓ.