I have written this book as a result of being in a Female Led Relationship (FLR) for over two decades and curating an FLR blog for over a decade. Over those decades I have engaged in a great deal of research and I reached the conclusions that:
## Ninety-nine-percent of people who need to be in an FLR, have no idea what the core essence of their need is, and so are unable to describe that to their life partner in a way that makes any sense.
## They also have no idea what the core dominant experiences are, that capture the soul of someone so they want to be running an FLR.
## Their attempts to describe themselves and their needs to a life partner were most often a disaster.
## They did not enable their life partner to experience what they needed to, to capture the soul of the life partner, so they wanted to be running an FLR.
So they ended up with a pretend FLR that satisfied neither partner, or no FLR at all. Over a few years I honed down simple and understandable resolutions to these problems, with great success. I tested those resolutions on a number of couples. The outcomes were wonderful.
This book is the result. You will not find another book with properly researched, and insightful, practical, content like this one. Content based on the assumption the prospective Domme might be the most vanilla woman imaginable. It is understandable how many individuals who want to be in an FLR, make exactly the same and very damaging mistakes when dealing with their vanilla life partner.
These mistakes arise as a result of:
## Mainstream movies, exploitative titillation documentaries, and TV programmes that purport to depict dominant women and real FLRs, but they are actually extremely misleading and very unhelpful;
## Professional dominatrices and profit-led misleading internet pornography;
## The fact that individuals wanting to be in an FLR have become habituated with their fantasy thoughts, most likely beginning before puberty, and can no longer put themselves into the mindset of a vanilla person. They are therefore unable to introduce the subject in a way that will not, at best, totally confuse a vanilla person and, at worst, also shock or disturb and often repulse that vanilla person., female led relationship, FLR, dominant wife, uxo, lesbian, submissive, Ms Scarlet| 9781326788971 | 53PAGES