Life is absolutely amazing. The fact that you were born is beyond measure and remarkable. Remarkable at truly short in the grand scheme of it all. You've got two choices:
Choice one: Live the life of your dreams to the fullest. Squeeze every drop out of every moment.
"Not how long, but how well you lived is the main thing." Seneca
Choice two: Live a life of "quiet desperation" constantly settling for what others have imagined for you.
If you want to get the most out of life. If you want to make a difference. If you want to find, or keep, your soul mate. Wake up and choose. When you do, some will jump off the ship. But you'll find that at the same harbor, others will climb on board. At the end of the day, you'll be surrounded by the right ones. And interestingly enough, so will they.
Good day to you and welcome to your life, lived on purpose.