The art of managing a healthy, realistic, and sustainable negotiated Dominant/submissive or Master/slave relationship starts with the individual who wants to be in charge. All too often, however, would-be Masters have unrealistic ideas about what it means to effectively and compassionately manage another human being, or they lack the significant skills necessary to make it work. This book calls on the wisdom of a number of experienced Masters of many different genders, styles, and walks of life, and maps out the pitfalls and challenges of walking this complicated path.