Life is a game and the game is life. The game is not about following people or memorizing a bunch of information to be a Man. The game is about thinking and controlling your thoughts. There is the Chess mindset and the Checker mindset. The Chess mindset is the indirect method of addressing people especially women and the Checker mindset is the direct method of addressing people.
Women use one of the most indirect languages that there is and that is body language. So then by logic a man too should think indirectly to 'checkmate' her. But the game doesn't stop at women, it is life. The Game is Chess not Checkers but both can be used while expressing and maintaining the truth to get better results than lies.