How can the same person be crazy and out of control one minute and reverent the next. I feel like five women in one and not all good, some overachieve and some sub par. The truth is that an unconventional mother is dedicated. Dedicated to raising her children and helping them grow. When you throw your hands up in the air and say "Why me?" I know how you feel, when you drop to your knees and say "Thank you God" I know how you feel. Read what a decade of mothering has taught me, all the while knowing I still have a lot to learn.