How many times have you told someone, ÒI want to be used by you,Ó or asked God, ÒWould you use me as you want?Ó Not very many children ask their parents this. Spouses wonÕt ask each other or even their friends this. Honestly nobody likes to be used. In fact we get upset, hurt and offended when weÕve been used by someone, yet we ask God to use us. This really seems a bit odd to me, if God is our Father?